After half year of working outside I finally decide to start my new career with my elder sister. Actually I have started to plan my own career from the beginning of my career when I first graduated from the school. At first I joined my sister’s team, at first everything go smoothly but after some time their business met some difficulties and the team need new thoughts and creativity so I decide to go out for learning the new method to run the company. The second reason that I decided to go out is that I felt that I am always protected by others when I work in my sister’s team and this will easily weaken my will to fight. So finally I decided to work outside it turns out that my decision is right, although I work in a small company I learned a lot, cheap
nfl jerseys, not only gain the work ability but also let me form good habits. Now we have already started our own new career by now everything is smoothly, hope that everything will still go on smoothly.
Tuesday, May 16, 2017
EQ and IQ
Emotional Quotient and Intelligence Quotient, nfl jerseys cheap, the words I just see the full spending of today even I have known it the long time ago. Likes many words we only know the abbreviation and meaning, but hardly to write down full words like FBI, CFO or CGTN. But this topic I would like say something about EQ.
To be a business man or the sale man surely the more business is the one of benchmark of the target, how to get the more business from your cold clients and can be developed and kept for the next the duration of contract.
Tiger is a boss of a property company which have one thousand employee company for more than 10 years, all the business of the company were taken by him only, frankly speaking he did not has high education during the school time, MBA was taken after his forty year old by his own, what I am trying to say how he was deal with the clients from the beginning to the end. I know many of his clients are the females, the last week we had the chat about it, Tiger is a handsome and kindness guy, he likes to help anybody around him including some relatives from other rural area who came to Beijing for living. He always gives his warm hands as much as possible to show his loves. The female partners of business likes to be his friends, at the last year all the wine was sponsor by a female vintner for the wedding, and I have knows some female friends around him for a long time, even sometime I was a little jealous of his expression, but he told me seriously I love you all. To be friend he needs to show real heart each other as well, and let them to believe you and like you. So how to create the distance between female friend and intimate friends, cheap hats, surely there is the bottom line could not be beyond during the communication, but let them feel free to be together, at the meanwhile the business can be creating the new chapter. This is the big functional of EQ.
To be a business man or the sale man surely the more business is the one of benchmark of the target, how to get the more business from your cold clients and can be developed and kept for the next the duration of contract.
Tiger is a boss of a property company which have one thousand employee company for more than 10 years, all the business of the company were taken by him only, frankly speaking he did not has high education during the school time, MBA was taken after his forty year old by his own, what I am trying to say how he was deal with the clients from the beginning to the end. I know many of his clients are the females, the last week we had the chat about it, Tiger is a handsome and kindness guy, he likes to help anybody around him including some relatives from other rural area who came to Beijing for living. He always gives his warm hands as much as possible to show his loves. The female partners of business likes to be his friends, at the last year all the wine was sponsor by a female vintner for the wedding, and I have knows some female friends around him for a long time, even sometime I was a little jealous of his expression, but he told me seriously I love you all. To be friend he needs to show real heart each other as well, and let them to believe you and like you. So how to create the distance between female friend and intimate friends, cheap hats, surely there is the bottom line could not be beyond during the communication, but let them feel free to be together, at the meanwhile the business can be creating the new chapter. This is the big functional of EQ.
pieces
It is hard to see through the whole path of the life. There is few of the critical moment which decisions need to be maken and we have to accept the aftermath which the decisions bring to us. Not matter good or bad, cheap jerseys, we live with it.
If I did not fight for the college entrance examination, I probably would stay in the factory, during the whole life, doing the dull and repeat the same work. If grandmother did not appear in my childhood life, I probably could not live well and grow up so well. Those decisons and close people greatly affect our whole life. When somebody is being the most important in our life, there is always part of the heart where belongs to them.
Love is always the miracle thing in the life of human being. Love does conquer a lot of hard moment. With the loved people, my heart is with the warmest and peacest. Without those kind of love and devotting, I do not think that I can live till this moment.
Life continues even a lot of loved ones passed away. It is pity that grandmother is not even alive. She is the most important person in my life. She is very optimistic with the future
Destiny, it is a mysterious thing. Not every meet will have a life-long story. In this cruel sociaty, people are automatically being indifferent and cold. That is why we do cherish those childlike relationship.
Wow. It is every hard for me to point the whole picture clearly. Sometimes it is not even to touch the parts. But, cheap nfl hats, I do hope that this longest blog does not make you annoying.
If I did not fight for the college entrance examination, I probably would stay in the factory, during the whole life, doing the dull and repeat the same work. If grandmother did not appear in my childhood life, I probably could not live well and grow up so well. Those decisons and close people greatly affect our whole life. When somebody is being the most important in our life, there is always part of the heart where belongs to them.
Love is always the miracle thing in the life of human being. Love does conquer a lot of hard moment. With the loved people, my heart is with the warmest and peacest. Without those kind of love and devotting, I do not think that I can live till this moment.
Life continues even a lot of loved ones passed away. It is pity that grandmother is not even alive. She is the most important person in my life. She is very optimistic with the future
Destiny, it is a mysterious thing. Not every meet will have a life-long story. In this cruel sociaty, people are automatically being indifferent and cold. That is why we do cherish those childlike relationship.
Wow. It is every hard for me to point the whole picture clearly. Sometimes it is not even to touch the parts. But, cheap nfl hats, I do hope that this longest blog does not make you annoying.
Monday, April 17, 2017
softness
Softness, from the once ruined heart
Softness, out of the fact see through
Softness, the rare diamond cumulative from the scar
Softness, combination with melancholy, looming over with shadow of the past, always lurking without your willings
It is never the subjective chosen, it is a in and out swamp to be with
Melancholy, an aftertaste of sth
Melancholy, the desire without qualification
Melancholy, veiled without trace, cheap hats, but you know it ignited by the unnoticeable puff of smoke
Melancholy, leave it off with your force
It is doomed to go through, so away as same as it was poisonous
Softness, out of the fact see through
Softness, the rare diamond cumulative from the scar
Softness, combination with melancholy, looming over with shadow of the past, always lurking without your willings
It is never the subjective chosen, it is a in and out swamp to be with
Melancholy, an aftertaste of sth
Melancholy, the desire without qualification
Melancholy, veiled without trace, cheap hats, but you know it ignited by the unnoticeable puff of smoke
Melancholy, leave it off with your force
It is doomed to go through, so away as same as it was poisonous
Nothing Succeeds Without a Strong Will
It goes without saying that success is something that everyone goes after. We want to be famous, rich and reputable. But what matters is the way to success.There is a humorous saying, " quitting smoking is the easiest thing in the world. I've done it hundreds of times." It tells us that if you want to succeed, you must persist in what you're doing and never give up. And finally, you will make it. For instance, nfl jerseys cheap, when we were young, we learnt how to ride a bike. We fell down again and again, but we still move on. At last, we made it because of our strong will.It's never exaggerating to argue that if we don't have a strong will, we can never succeed. Only in this way can we achieve remarkable success in our work.
When can you be mature?
When can you be mature? This is what I want to say to my younger brother,who was born in 1992.
Now he is a husband and also a would-be father. Though our family was not wealthy, nfl jerseys china, as the only boy in our family, he indeed enjoyed a very good priviledge. Unlike my elder sister and I, he didn't need to do any farmwork or housework, even if he did, it was more likely because of some "rewards". Under such somewhat spoiled environment, I had to admit he was a little selfish. More detailly, he didn't think or care about others too much and he always took what others did for him for granted. If it was before, I could understand and bear him, but now,I couldn't.
Sometimes, I really couldn't figure out what he was thinking in his mind and what kind of person he was. Like most children in a family, we three children always quarreled and even fighted together since we were young, of course, he was the trouble-maker but always first to complain. As we grew up, he became a little better. In my memory, cheap Oakley sunglasses, there were several things he did that touched me the most. The first thing I wanted to mention was, he bought me a cellphone with his salary when I successfully attended the college. Then, on the day when my sister got married, I saw he cried sadly for several times. And another time was when my father was ill in hospital, I also he cried for severl times. And then, when my father passed away, I saw helplessness, sadness and guiltiness from his eyes. I originally thought he could become more mature and responsible after these things, while, that seemed wrong.
I admitted, more or less, it was related to my family. My father was a little strict, and we three were all scared of him. As we grew older, my sister and I could understand my father more, and we knew he did a lot for us, so we felt so grateful and became more caring about him. While, my younger brother was not. Since he was young, cheap nfl hats, he caused many troubles either at home or at school, so my father would punished him, sometimes would even hit him. He was a very different child, even if he was very hurt, but he seldom cried when my father was present. Of course, that made my father more angry, because he thought his son was challenging him. Maybe, they couldn't understand each other was the root resulting in what my brother was like today. I guessed, he only memorized what cruel behavoirs my father did to him, so he was rebellious and my father could never come into his heart, and as we saw, they had always been in a little remote relationship.
He really had a bad temper. Maybe, it was inherited. Actually, we three were all bad-tempered people. If ranked, my brother was the most serious, then my sister, and I was the last. Because his selfishness, so whenever we said, even if we were all for his good, as long as he was bored, he would lose his temper, shouting at us and ask us to close our mouths and stop nagging. He could never imagine what kind of feelings in our hearts because he didn't care that much. After my father left, I thought he could more realize the importance of a family, cherish our family, and think more for my mother, my sister and I. But he again let us down. Sometimes, he acted very good, really like a good son, but sometimes he was still that him. Truly speaking, it was my sister and I took full care of my mother. And we helped a lot when he got married and when he bought a house. My mother always said his son was not easy, and we all knew it was a little tough for him to support a new family. So we all tried our best to relief his burden. But I found it was hard for him to be grateful from the inner heart, even if there was, it didn't last very long.
Yesterday, my brother called me, but because I didn't get off the plane, so I told him I would call him later, while I finally forgot. Today, I called my mother and she told me yesterday my brother lost his temper again, and they quarreled with each other. And I heard my mother cry. By judgement, I knew my brother was calling for my help, replica oakley sunglasses, because he made my mother cry. I really found this ridiculous, very obviously, he knew what the result would be if he lost his temper, but he still did, and after that, he started to realize how bad behavior he did and felt regreted, and then backwards to beg for others' excuse. And I also couldn't figure out why he could be that friendly and generous to his friends, but for us, he couldn't.
Do not laugh at me, in my head, I really prepared a lot of words for him when I would call him later. If it was because of other things, I would not say anything, because I didn't hope to add too much pressure for him. But this time, he touched my bottom line. Whether my mother had fault or not, I didn't think it mattered a lot, because as daughters and sons, we must take our own responsibility and try our best to love her and protect her. I don't expect he could have a instant change, I only hope my words could have some effects on him. To get mature is really a long process, when he would make it, I don't know, maybe, not far.
Now he is a husband and also a would-be father. Though our family was not wealthy, nfl jerseys china, as the only boy in our family, he indeed enjoyed a very good priviledge. Unlike my elder sister and I, he didn't need to do any farmwork or housework, even if he did, it was more likely because of some "rewards". Under such somewhat spoiled environment, I had to admit he was a little selfish. More detailly, he didn't think or care about others too much and he always took what others did for him for granted. If it was before, I could understand and bear him, but now,I couldn't.
Sometimes, I really couldn't figure out what he was thinking in his mind and what kind of person he was. Like most children in a family, we three children always quarreled and even fighted together since we were young, of course, he was the trouble-maker but always first to complain. As we grew up, he became a little better. In my memory, cheap Oakley sunglasses, there were several things he did that touched me the most. The first thing I wanted to mention was, he bought me a cellphone with his salary when I successfully attended the college. Then, on the day when my sister got married, I saw he cried sadly for several times. And another time was when my father was ill in hospital, I also he cried for severl times. And then, when my father passed away, I saw helplessness, sadness and guiltiness from his eyes. I originally thought he could become more mature and responsible after these things, while, that seemed wrong.
I admitted, more or less, it was related to my family. My father was a little strict, and we three were all scared of him. As we grew older, my sister and I could understand my father more, and we knew he did a lot for us, so we felt so grateful and became more caring about him. While, my younger brother was not. Since he was young, cheap nfl hats, he caused many troubles either at home or at school, so my father would punished him, sometimes would even hit him. He was a very different child, even if he was very hurt, but he seldom cried when my father was present. Of course, that made my father more angry, because he thought his son was challenging him. Maybe, they couldn't understand each other was the root resulting in what my brother was like today. I guessed, he only memorized what cruel behavoirs my father did to him, so he was rebellious and my father could never come into his heart, and as we saw, they had always been in a little remote relationship.
He really had a bad temper. Maybe, it was inherited. Actually, we three were all bad-tempered people. If ranked, my brother was the most serious, then my sister, and I was the last. Because his selfishness, so whenever we said, even if we were all for his good, as long as he was bored, he would lose his temper, shouting at us and ask us to close our mouths and stop nagging. He could never imagine what kind of feelings in our hearts because he didn't care that much. After my father left, I thought he could more realize the importance of a family, cherish our family, and think more for my mother, my sister and I. But he again let us down. Sometimes, he acted very good, really like a good son, but sometimes he was still that him. Truly speaking, it was my sister and I took full care of my mother. And we helped a lot when he got married and when he bought a house. My mother always said his son was not easy, and we all knew it was a little tough for him to support a new family. So we all tried our best to relief his burden. But I found it was hard for him to be grateful from the inner heart, even if there was, it didn't last very long.
Yesterday, my brother called me, but because I didn't get off the plane, so I told him I would call him later, while I finally forgot. Today, I called my mother and she told me yesterday my brother lost his temper again, and they quarreled with each other. And I heard my mother cry. By judgement, I knew my brother was calling for my help, replica oakley sunglasses, because he made my mother cry. I really found this ridiculous, very obviously, he knew what the result would be if he lost his temper, but he still did, and after that, he started to realize how bad behavior he did and felt regreted, and then backwards to beg for others' excuse. And I also couldn't figure out why he could be that friendly and generous to his friends, but for us, he couldn't.
Do not laugh at me, in my head, I really prepared a lot of words for him when I would call him later. If it was because of other things, I would not say anything, because I didn't hope to add too much pressure for him. But this time, he touched my bottom line. Whether my mother had fault or not, I didn't think it mattered a lot, because as daughters and sons, we must take our own responsibility and try our best to love her and protect her. I don't expect he could have a instant change, I only hope my words could have some effects on him. To get mature is really a long process, when he would make it, I don't know, maybe, not far.
Friday, April 14, 2017
A new comer was on board
Finally, the new comer was on board at the beginning of this week, with a different point of view for new comer joined. On the one hand, the loading on our shoulders will be released in a way, on the other hand, the distribution of working will be allocated based on the current situation. So, some of tasks which were on my hands would transfer to someone else. In return for this,cheap
jerseys, I also needed to accept more extra work that supposed to others. I am not sure why the boss made this decision, maybe it's based on his consideration, but, definitely, it's not a wise decision, because this will cost a lot of times to adapt changing. It may develop the potential of ours if we stand an opposite position. It's the only way, I can comfort myself in private.
Actually, there is a big challenge to most of us whose work in a small company. As we know if you work in a small company, and that means you have to play multi-role under most of circumstances. I think that it's common to most of small size companies, because I already feel the feeling of pain.
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