Softness, from the once ruined heart
Softness, out of the fact see through
Softness, the rare diamond cumulative from the scar
Softness, combination with melancholy, looming over with shadow of the past, always lurking without your willings
It is never the subjective chosen, it is a in and out swamp to be with
Melancholy, an aftertaste of sth
Melancholy, the desire without qualification
Melancholy, veiled without trace, cheap
hats, but you know it ignited by the unnoticeable puff of smoke
Melancholy, leave it off with your force
It is doomed to go through, so away as same as it was poisonous
Monday, April 17, 2017
Nothing Succeeds Without a Strong Will
It goes without saying that success is something that everyone goes after. We want to be famous, rich and reputable. But what matters is the way to success.There is a humorous saying, " quitting smoking is the easiest thing in the world. I've done it hundreds of times." It tells us that if you want to succeed, you must persist in what you're doing and never give up. And finally, you will make it. For instance, nfl jerseys cheap, when we were young, we learnt how to ride a bike. We fell down again and again, but we still move on. At last, we made it because of our strong will.It's never exaggerating to argue that if we don't have a strong will, we can never succeed. Only in this way can we achieve remarkable success in our work.
When can you be mature?
When can you be mature? This is what I want to say to my younger brother,who was born in 1992.
Now he is a husband and also a would-be father. Though our family was not wealthy, nfl jerseys china, as the only boy in our family, he indeed enjoyed a very good priviledge. Unlike my elder sister and I, he didn't need to do any farmwork or housework, even if he did, it was more likely because of some "rewards". Under such somewhat spoiled environment, I had to admit he was a little selfish. More detailly, he didn't think or care about others too much and he always took what others did for him for granted. If it was before, I could understand and bear him, but now,I couldn't.
Sometimes, I really couldn't figure out what he was thinking in his mind and what kind of person he was. Like most children in a family, we three children always quarreled and even fighted together since we were young, of course, he was the trouble-maker but always first to complain. As we grew up, he became a little better. In my memory, cheap Oakley sunglasses, there were several things he did that touched me the most. The first thing I wanted to mention was, he bought me a cellphone with his salary when I successfully attended the college. Then, on the day when my sister got married, I saw he cried sadly for several times. And another time was when my father was ill in hospital, I also he cried for severl times. And then, when my father passed away, I saw helplessness, sadness and guiltiness from his eyes. I originally thought he could become more mature and responsible after these things, while, that seemed wrong.
I admitted, more or less, it was related to my family. My father was a little strict, and we three were all scared of him. As we grew older, my sister and I could understand my father more, and we knew he did a lot for us, so we felt so grateful and became more caring about him. While, my younger brother was not. Since he was young, cheap nfl hats, he caused many troubles either at home or at school, so my father would punished him, sometimes would even hit him. He was a very different child, even if he was very hurt, but he seldom cried when my father was present. Of course, that made my father more angry, because he thought his son was challenging him. Maybe, they couldn't understand each other was the root resulting in what my brother was like today. I guessed, he only memorized what cruel behavoirs my father did to him, so he was rebellious and my father could never come into his heart, and as we saw, they had always been in a little remote relationship.
He really had a bad temper. Maybe, it was inherited. Actually, we three were all bad-tempered people. If ranked, my brother was the most serious, then my sister, and I was the last. Because his selfishness, so whenever we said, even if we were all for his good, as long as he was bored, he would lose his temper, shouting at us and ask us to close our mouths and stop nagging. He could never imagine what kind of feelings in our hearts because he didn't care that much. After my father left, I thought he could more realize the importance of a family, cherish our family, and think more for my mother, my sister and I. But he again let us down. Sometimes, he acted very good, really like a good son, but sometimes he was still that him. Truly speaking, it was my sister and I took full care of my mother. And we helped a lot when he got married and when he bought a house. My mother always said his son was not easy, and we all knew it was a little tough for him to support a new family. So we all tried our best to relief his burden. But I found it was hard for him to be grateful from the inner heart, even if there was, it didn't last very long.
Yesterday, my brother called me, but because I didn't get off the plane, so I told him I would call him later, while I finally forgot. Today, I called my mother and she told me yesterday my brother lost his temper again, and they quarreled with each other. And I heard my mother cry. By judgement, I knew my brother was calling for my help, replica oakley sunglasses, because he made my mother cry. I really found this ridiculous, very obviously, he knew what the result would be if he lost his temper, but he still did, and after that, he started to realize how bad behavior he did and felt regreted, and then backwards to beg for others' excuse. And I also couldn't figure out why he could be that friendly and generous to his friends, but for us, he couldn't.
Do not laugh at me, in my head, I really prepared a lot of words for him when I would call him later. If it was because of other things, I would not say anything, because I didn't hope to add too much pressure for him. But this time, he touched my bottom line. Whether my mother had fault or not, I didn't think it mattered a lot, because as daughters and sons, we must take our own responsibility and try our best to love her and protect her. I don't expect he could have a instant change, I only hope my words could have some effects on him. To get mature is really a long process, when he would make it, I don't know, maybe, not far.
Now he is a husband and also a would-be father. Though our family was not wealthy, nfl jerseys china, as the only boy in our family, he indeed enjoyed a very good priviledge. Unlike my elder sister and I, he didn't need to do any farmwork or housework, even if he did, it was more likely because of some "rewards". Under such somewhat spoiled environment, I had to admit he was a little selfish. More detailly, he didn't think or care about others too much and he always took what others did for him for granted. If it was before, I could understand and bear him, but now,I couldn't.
Sometimes, I really couldn't figure out what he was thinking in his mind and what kind of person he was. Like most children in a family, we three children always quarreled and even fighted together since we were young, of course, he was the trouble-maker but always first to complain. As we grew up, he became a little better. In my memory, cheap Oakley sunglasses, there were several things he did that touched me the most. The first thing I wanted to mention was, he bought me a cellphone with his salary when I successfully attended the college. Then, on the day when my sister got married, I saw he cried sadly for several times. And another time was when my father was ill in hospital, I also he cried for severl times. And then, when my father passed away, I saw helplessness, sadness and guiltiness from his eyes. I originally thought he could become more mature and responsible after these things, while, that seemed wrong.
I admitted, more or less, it was related to my family. My father was a little strict, and we three were all scared of him. As we grew older, my sister and I could understand my father more, and we knew he did a lot for us, so we felt so grateful and became more caring about him. While, my younger brother was not. Since he was young, cheap nfl hats, he caused many troubles either at home or at school, so my father would punished him, sometimes would even hit him. He was a very different child, even if he was very hurt, but he seldom cried when my father was present. Of course, that made my father more angry, because he thought his son was challenging him. Maybe, they couldn't understand each other was the root resulting in what my brother was like today. I guessed, he only memorized what cruel behavoirs my father did to him, so he was rebellious and my father could never come into his heart, and as we saw, they had always been in a little remote relationship.
He really had a bad temper. Maybe, it was inherited. Actually, we three were all bad-tempered people. If ranked, my brother was the most serious, then my sister, and I was the last. Because his selfishness, so whenever we said, even if we were all for his good, as long as he was bored, he would lose his temper, shouting at us and ask us to close our mouths and stop nagging. He could never imagine what kind of feelings in our hearts because he didn't care that much. After my father left, I thought he could more realize the importance of a family, cherish our family, and think more for my mother, my sister and I. But he again let us down. Sometimes, he acted very good, really like a good son, but sometimes he was still that him. Truly speaking, it was my sister and I took full care of my mother. And we helped a lot when he got married and when he bought a house. My mother always said his son was not easy, and we all knew it was a little tough for him to support a new family. So we all tried our best to relief his burden. But I found it was hard for him to be grateful from the inner heart, even if there was, it didn't last very long.
Yesterday, my brother called me, but because I didn't get off the plane, so I told him I would call him later, while I finally forgot. Today, I called my mother and she told me yesterday my brother lost his temper again, and they quarreled with each other. And I heard my mother cry. By judgement, I knew my brother was calling for my help, replica oakley sunglasses, because he made my mother cry. I really found this ridiculous, very obviously, he knew what the result would be if he lost his temper, but he still did, and after that, he started to realize how bad behavior he did and felt regreted, and then backwards to beg for others' excuse. And I also couldn't figure out why he could be that friendly and generous to his friends, but for us, he couldn't.
Do not laugh at me, in my head, I really prepared a lot of words for him when I would call him later. If it was because of other things, I would not say anything, because I didn't hope to add too much pressure for him. But this time, he touched my bottom line. Whether my mother had fault or not, I didn't think it mattered a lot, because as daughters and sons, we must take our own responsibility and try our best to love her and protect her. I don't expect he could have a instant change, I only hope my words could have some effects on him. To get mature is really a long process, when he would make it, I don't know, maybe, not far.
Friday, April 14, 2017
A new comer was on board
Finally, the new comer was on board at the beginning of this week, with a different point of view for new comer joined. On the one hand, the loading on our shoulders will be released in a way, on the other hand, the distribution of working will be allocated based on the current situation. So, some of tasks which were on my hands would transfer to someone else. In return for this,cheap
jerseys, I also needed to accept more extra work that supposed to others. I am not sure why the boss made this decision, maybe it's based on his consideration, but, definitely, it's not a wise decision, because this will cost a lot of times to adapt changing. It may develop the potential of ours if we stand an opposite position. It's the only way, I can comfort myself in private.
Actually, there is a big challenge to most of us whose work in a small company. As we know if you work in a small company, and that means you have to play multi-role under most of circumstances. I think that it's common to most of small size companies, because I already feel the feeling of pain.
Disabilities
It is universally acknowledged that there are many kinds of disabilities all over the world. Such as blind, deaf,cheap
nfl hats, lame and so on. Lots of people are suffering from disabilities. Those disabled individuals live harder than our normal people.
Nevertheless, most of them are disabled but strong-willed. The most typical example is Stephen Hawking. He suffered from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis paralyzed, unable to speak. The only thing he can do is to move two eyes and three fingers. In spite of this, he is still filled with hope for live, and he has become one of the greatest physicists. What’s more, he has opened the micro-blog and been popular among Chinese fans. His spirit is very admirable.
As far as I’m concerned, disabilities need our help materially,cheap oakley sunglasses, but their emotional worlds are up to themselves. What we should do is not discriminate against them and respect them. Disability is not equal to failure. On condition that they keep looking and moving forward, they are winners in their life.
Nevertheless, most of them are disabled but strong-willed. The most typical example is Stephen Hawking. He suffered from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis paralyzed, unable to speak. The only thing he can do is to move two eyes and three fingers. In spite of this, he is still filled with hope for live, and he has become one of the greatest physicists. What’s more, he has opened the micro-blog and been popular among Chinese fans. His spirit is very admirable.
As far as I’m concerned, disabilities need our help materially,cheap oakley sunglasses, but their emotional worlds are up to themselves. What we should do is not discriminate against them and respect them. Disability is not equal to failure. On condition that they keep looking and moving forward, they are winners in their life.
A missed opportunity
Last night I attended an online English course. It lasted for an hour and a half. However to pick up my son after night class, I had to drop out half the way. What a pity. This course is like an online English Corner, with a topic to discussion on and a teacher to organize. As I have said, I had some difficulties in speaking English. I had been to English corner several times,cheap nfl jerseys, but most of time I was just a listener, and I had never volunteered to speak out my opinion in such situations. But this time, I decided to make some changes. I clicked “raise your hand” bottom from the very beginning and determined not to give me any chance to change my mind.
Fortunately, or unfortunately I was the second one to answer the question. I could almost hear my heart pounding hardly in my chest.
The topic is about travelling. And the first question is “What is your hobby?” I heard myself answered: “I love travelling and I also love reading. And sometimes I like to combine them both. I mean, the world is like a huge book. To better understand that book,cheap snapbacks, we need to do both onsite explorations—like travelling and offsite research---like reading. So before every trip, I would do some reading in advance, to know better about the place I’m going to visit.” I believed I stammered once or twice, and I was not sure I pronounced “exploration” correctly. But at least, I did it. I made myself understood. That’s a step forward, isn’t it? After that Susan, the teacher, exchanged a few words with me. This success gave me some confidence to go on. However, before I got another chance to answer the question, I got to go.
Travelling happens to one of my favorite topic. If it was about sports or politics, I would have nothing to say except: “No comment”.
I remember the next question is “Do you like travelling. Either your answer is Yes or No, please give out the reasons.”
Of course, I love travelling. For me travelling is about to break the routines. Every day we spend our life pretty much in the same way: We get up in the morning, we take care our kids, we do laundry, cheap replica oakleys, clean and cook, we work, we come back home, we learn English, and we go to sleep. Such life is not bad on the whole. It has created our comfort zone. But once in a while, you just need to break it, to get out of it, to escape from it. Travelling is different. Everything you see, everything you hear, everything you feel is different. It’s brand new experience. Sometimes, we just need excitements like that.
And the last question I believe is “what’s the advantage and disadvantage of the travelling?”
The advantage of travelling is the same reason why I like it. As for the disadvantage of it, I believe that the first one is it certainly can burn a hole in your pocket. Second,wholesale nfl jerseys, planning a travel is a terrible but must-do job. You have to take everything into considerations, especially when you plan a travel for a large group. It’s almost impossible to satisfy everyone’s need and expectation.
So, my dear friend, what’s your answers to the above questions?
Fortunately, or unfortunately I was the second one to answer the question. I could almost hear my heart pounding hardly in my chest.
The topic is about travelling. And the first question is “What is your hobby?” I heard myself answered: “I love travelling and I also love reading. And sometimes I like to combine them both. I mean, the world is like a huge book. To better understand that book,cheap snapbacks, we need to do both onsite explorations—like travelling and offsite research---like reading. So before every trip, I would do some reading in advance, to know better about the place I’m going to visit.” I believed I stammered once or twice, and I was not sure I pronounced “exploration” correctly. But at least, I did it. I made myself understood. That’s a step forward, isn’t it? After that Susan, the teacher, exchanged a few words with me. This success gave me some confidence to go on. However, before I got another chance to answer the question, I got to go.
Travelling happens to one of my favorite topic. If it was about sports or politics, I would have nothing to say except: “No comment”.
I remember the next question is “Do you like travelling. Either your answer is Yes or No, please give out the reasons.”
Of course, I love travelling. For me travelling is about to break the routines. Every day we spend our life pretty much in the same way: We get up in the morning, we take care our kids, we do laundry, cheap replica oakleys, clean and cook, we work, we come back home, we learn English, and we go to sleep. Such life is not bad on the whole. It has created our comfort zone. But once in a while, you just need to break it, to get out of it, to escape from it. Travelling is different. Everything you see, everything you hear, everything you feel is different. It’s brand new experience. Sometimes, we just need excitements like that.
And the last question I believe is “what’s the advantage and disadvantage of the travelling?”
The advantage of travelling is the same reason why I like it. As for the disadvantage of it, I believe that the first one is it certainly can burn a hole in your pocket. Second,wholesale nfl jerseys, planning a travel is a terrible but must-do job. You have to take everything into considerations, especially when you plan a travel for a large group. It’s almost impossible to satisfy everyone’s need and expectation.
So, my dear friend, what’s your answers to the above questions?
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